Today I was suppose to do something nice for him… They gave the suggestion of cleaning up the house, or going out of my way to do something…. but I always do that! In fact, I have taken on all the house work for the last 6 months so that he wouldn’t have to worry about it. I work maybe 12 hours a week and he works 40. He shouldn’t have to worry about the kitchen being clean. He does help when I need him too or when he thinks that I’m too stressed out. So today, while I was at the Dollar Tree buying party supplies, I grabbed him some mini cow tails. I know he loves those and I wanted him to see that I was thinking about him. I didn’t pick myself up any candy, I didn’t want it to seem like just another candy run. That seems really silly since I just typed it out… oops! Either way, he loved them and was excited when I handed them to him.
I’m also keeping up with not saying anything bad or negative to or about him… It’s working. You know, it actually makes me heart feel lighter? Isn’t that amazing. I cant believe how much weight negativity puts on you. I’m curious to know if he has even noticed? I definitely encourage you to try it. Even if you don’t think that you say anything bad to your partner, you will be surprised how many slips you let go.
22 What a person desires is unfailing love[b];
better to be poor than a liar.